The Wit and Wisdom of Cornellians

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The Wit and Wisdom of Cornellians

The right of Big Red Bears to babble shall not be infringed

Dionysus meets the Compliance Office

Paul D. Rossi ’91

In the “Cornell Seven” case, the narrative arrived before the evidence was done speaking. Former members of Cornell’s Chi Phi fraternity are accused of drugging and gang-raping a female student in 2024. Politicians and celebrities joined the orgy of condemnation, and now Letitia James enters the scene Eric Holder-style to take over the criminal investigation in Ithaca.

The problem is that our portrait of Jane Doe is incongruous to the point of Cubism. As fast as you can say “slut-shame,” she went from bawdy party girl with Wife of Bath sensibilities to hapless victim. As word of the night spread, her standing within the circles of Greek Life cratered, and an online account recast the episode as a gang rape. That’s some serious narrative whiplash.

Shelby Steele’s idea of White Guilt offers a useful way to think about how the public is coping with this cognitive dissonance. Steele argued that after America repudiated its racist past, white Americans suffered a loss of moral authority. Recovering innocence for “good whites” means public subordination to black grievance—kneeling in Kente cloth, posting a black square, perching Kendi on your bookshelf, and other gestures designed to show you were “doing the work.” Since moral rehabilitation for whites is the goal, the effect on blacks is patronizing.

Male Guilt is the sexual-political counterpart to Steele’s White Guilt: men inherit the sins of patriarchy, sexual exploitation and male violence, then spend a great deal of time proving that they are not one of those men. The “good man” does not merely sympathize with a woman who says she was harmed. He is expected to defer to her version of what happened. Her “lived experience” outranks inconvenient evidence, and “believe women” can quietly turn into: believe this woman, or explain why you’re taking the man’s side.

Then there’s the “She could have been any one of our daughters” copypasta, which dads everywhere are ladling out across social media. Given reports of Jane Doe’s heartily Rabelaisian conduct that night—and her comment that “we’re all consenting adults here”—the identification is striking. Once you imagine Jane Doe as your own daughter, you have stopped looking at a disputed event from the outside. You are imagining your child telling you the story, and very few fathers are going to treat that conversation as a sober fact-finding mission.

This is how Male Guilt wins back moral standing: identify with the woman, condemn the accused, and make clear you are safe, enlightened and definitely not one of them. Its counterpart is Female Rage—anger backed by three million years of oppression, not a mere 400. Between them, grievance and absolution make for a pretty efficient trade.

The by-product of this exchange is what Steele calls “poetic truth.” In his documentary What Killed Michael Brown?, he uses the term for the story an event comes to stand for, even when the facts don’t quite fit.

The poetic truth of Ferguson was irresistible: an innocent black teenager, hands in the air, shot by a racist white cop. “Hands up, don’t shoot” compressed the whole story into four words. The problem was that the Feds found the surrender narrative did not hold up. Some witnesses contradicted the physical evidence; others changed their stories. By then, though, the slogan no longer needed Michael Brown. It had become a shorthand for what people already believed about race and policing.

Poetic truth works like a constellation: once the lines are drawn, the stars at the corners shape the picture, while those outside are ignored or dismissed. Facts that fit the story are noticed; facts that don’t go unseen.

The Cornell story has undergone the same poetic-truth makeover. In the version built for public consumption, seven privileged frat boys drug and gang-rape a vulnerable young woman, while Cornell circles the wagons around them. It has everything the story needs: villains, victim, institution, outrage.

The evidence, unfortunately for the cleaner story, refuses to stay inside the lines. Jane Doe’s later account is unequivocal: she says she was raped. But her earlier messages tell a murkier story. Two days after the encounter, she reportedly said that “none of the sexual stuff was illegal” and that she had liked being with two of the men. In another October 23 text, she told one of them “i luv u king” and volunteered to “actually beat” anyone who gave him trouble. As word spread, her concern shifted sharply toward reputation and social fallout.

She later told Cornell investigators, “That’s the first time I had ever heard the narrative change that I wasn’t a whore and that I was assaulted.” That is a remarkable sentence. The shift was not simply from one memory to another, but from one moral category to another. She continued talking with fraternity members and planned to attend Chi Phi’s Halloween party; not long afterward, she was describing most of the night as nonconsensual.

Maybe her later interpretation is the right one. But the public discussion has developed a funny rule: her later statements are taken at face value, while her earlier ones require a full psychological support staff—trauma, denial, intoxication, confusion, delayed realization. Notice how tidy that is. The statements that fit the story mean exactly what they say. The ones that don’t apparently need a translator.

Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez went to Ithaca and stoked outrage about sexual violence at elite institutions. Republican Congressman Mike Lawler came at it from the other side of the aisle and wound up in almost the same place. That AOC and Mike Lawler are reading from roughly the same script is a sign the narrative has escaped its partisan enclosure.

Then there is Letitia James. Before becoming special prosecutor, she had already called what Jane Doe endured “horrific” and publicly treated her as a survivor. When questioned about the obvious appearance of bias, James imperiously declined to comment on something as trivial as a Facebook post—even if it happened to be her own. By the time she arrived, the public casting was already done: survivor, rapists, institution protecting men.

This is where Male Guilt does its real work. The defendants stop being seven individuals whose conduct has to be sorted out and become “the Cornell Seven,” stand-ins for fraternity culture, male privilege, sexual aggression and patriarchy. For other men, buying into the story has an obvious payoff: you get to stand with the women, condemn the bad guys and make clear that you are not part of the problem. Female Rage gets another witness, and Male Guilt gets another chance at innocence.

Much has been made of the “Free Pussy” comment in the men’s group chat, as though vulgarity were evidence of predation. It was crude. So what? If a sorority chat joked about a man’s dick, would anyone treat that as evidence of sexual criminality? Women are told to be sex-positive and unapologetic; young men are apparently expected to conduct private sexual banter like Presbyterian deacons. You can dislike the language without pretending it proves anything about consent.

Steele’s argument gets more uncomfortable once you ask what freedom actually requires. Oppression gives you someone else to blame, while freedom leaves you holding at least part of the bag. That is true for women no less than men. If women have full agency, then they also have the freedom to use it badly—to get drunk, take drugs, sleep with the wrong people, take reckless sexual risks, want contradictory things and regret choices they freely made. They can also be raped. A grown-up society has to be able to tell those things apart without pretending one possibility cancels out the others.

The old paternalism said women were too fragile to be trusted with freedom. The newer version is more flattering, but it can end up in much the same place. Women are treated as fully autonomous until a bad outcome needs explaining, at which point male power rematerializes and takes over the explanation. That is where poetic truth becomes so useful, because it gives everyone a simpler version of events than the evidence may justify. Ferguson’s “Hands up, don’t shoot!” is now Cornell’s “Seven rapists and one survivor.” The problem is not that simple stories are always wrong. It is that once they become emotionally satisfying enough, people start reading the evidence through the story instead of building the story from the evidence.

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